Self love is the best love. You’ve heard it a thousand times..well because it’s true but also because at any stage in your life…you just have to have this whole SELF-LOVE thing down girlfriend! I mean self-worth, self-appreciation, self-love whatever you call it is a MUST! You won’t get anything out of this life if you don’t master it. Let me backtrack, you will get some stuff but you will never live the life you truly DESIRE without loving all up on yourself daily!
                     Every girl and woman must realize that it is imperative that you be your own VALENTINE, not just on Februry 14 but all the DAMN time. It doesn’t matter whether you are single, dating, married, or divorced. You MUST learn to radiate in all of your feminine GLORY all the damn time. It is your birthright. You were birthed from radiance and it only gets better the older and more knowledgeable you become about WHO YOU ARE and WHAT YOU WANT OUT OF LIFE.
           You want to be that girl [woman] on fire all the time than you better make sure you are giving yourself that love daily. Just like you get up in the morning and brush your teeth everyday or kiss your man everyday or get your cup of coffee every morning or wrap your hair every night (although sometimes I skip this and wake up looking less than flawless…don’t judge me!! lol) Just like all of those things you do EVERYDAY…you have got to COMMIT to building in confidence boosters daily. It is no different.
Yes, you can say “I am confident” all day and all night, but you have to keep it up honey. We all have our good days and our bad days. You have to have a bank of love already filled up so on those days when you feel less than flawless you can deposit what you need.
                      This means being conscious of the loving you are surrounding yourself with. Here are 5 surefire ways to radiate in your feminine glory everyday like it’s Valentine’s Day P.S. Why is it that we as women expect a man to go all out for us on one damn day of the year? He should be going out for us all the time and even more WE should be getting the LOVE we DESERVE all the time too. Use these tips to keep the love coming to you every day as if everyday was Valentine’s Day or even your birthday..hell girl you DESERVE IT:

1.Carry Your Confidence

Make it your business to affirm your love for yourself daily. Do this by creating “Confidence Cards” that you carry with you. The easiest way to make this happen is to get a few index cards and place them on a ring. Come up with 5-7 “mind shifters” that will help you stay focused on living your most regal, confident, and magnetic life. For example, “I am a regal and magnetic woman,” ” I am a man magnet and all men want to date me,” “I am a queen and I am a high value woman who never settles for less than the best,” “I am a happy, healthy, and whole woman and I attract good things my way at all times,” and the list continues. Pull these cards out when you need it the most. Again, just like your brush your teeth everyday, you need to keep your mind fresh and anew by telling yourself sweet nothings daily, especially when you are worrying, doubting, and fearing something in your life.

2.Bless Your Body

Make it a top priority that you are feeding your body foods that lead to a natural, healthy glow. It is imperative that you eat foods that give you good health, healthy skin, and a healthy womb. The better the quality of food you put into your body, the more you radiate on the outside.
For healthier skin: Exfoliate daily and eat green leafy vegetables, seeds and nuts, more seafood
For healthier body: Drink lemon water daily, eat “clean” 90% of the time, and eat more: papaya, berries, watermelon, mangoes, and any citrus fruit
For healthier womb: Minimize or eliminate snacks, red meat, ice cream, and/or  sodas
If you don’t do anything else, drink MORE WATER!

3.Dress to Be Addressed

No matter where you are going always, ALWAYS dress the way you want to be addressed. If you want to be a regal, confident, and magnetic woman than you must dress like that woman! A woman who attracts highly quality opportunities, men, finances, etc has to dress the part. Like attracts like. Every morning you should walk out the house flawless. I don’t care if you are running to the dollar store. Look your absolute best! People address, judge, and make decisions about you based on not only your vibe on the inside but the life you are giving them on the outside. Put it this way…you should look so good that you make other woman want to get their ish together! Look good EVERYWHERE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! When you look good…you feel good!

4. Empower Your Showers

Turn your normal routine showers into an empowering sauna of self-love! Use shower time to not only clean your body, but to connect deeply with yourself. This will require a longer time in the shower but it is worth it. Start exfoliating daily when you shower. Include time to say a prayer to a higher power and to say several affirmations to yourself before you get your day started.
Supercharge it by massaging your body with your favorite body wash and saying your affirmations at the same time. Be present and embrace the water, your body, and your words. Do this everyday and walk out feeling electrified to start your day!
Take this a step further and take a bath at least once a week to really connect more deeply with yourself.

5.Pursue Your Purpose 

Women who know who they are and pursue the purpose placed within them glow more…period! They just do. You MUST know what your purpose in life is and you MUST pursue it fiercely and fearlessly. When we are in touch with our soul’s mission in life we get an extra pep in our step and fire in our eyes. There is a certain level of confidence and certainty that women with a purpose possess. Get you some of that if you don’t already. If doesn’t serve you or the world to have a special talent or gift that you refuse to let the world benefit from!
         Regal Resource–BONUS: Play the “I Like It” Game. Relationship expert, Michael Fiore includes this in his programs by having both men and women make list of everything that like about themselves such as their appearance, personality, accomplishments, etc and then they must create either a letter or poem to themselves with all of the things they like about themselves. The idea is to carry it with you and pull it out whenever you need an extra boost to put a little more radiance in your step for the day!
I Want to Know:
  • What is the hardest part about feeling confident and radiant everyday?
  • Have you tried any of these before?
  • Which one can you do more of to increase your confidence?


**I have so many other tips and tricks that could help you become a regal, confident, and magnetic powerhouse of a woman. E-mail me with your individual questions for a more personalized response:

Stay tuned for my book to come out that will dish all of the goodness on being a highly valuable, regal, confident, and magnetic woman so that you can attract more confidence, more money, great relationships with men, good health, more clarity and satisfaction in life, and more! In the meantime, try my home study course, Make Me Over: Refocus & Redesign Your Life.